Words: Ben Pulsford
A 20-year-old college student has been hitting headlines for dropping out of college to become a full-time sugar baby to a sugar daddy almost 40 years older than him.
The concept of sugar dating or ‘sugaring’ – when a younger guy dates an older, much wealthier and more established daddy or ‘provider’ – has been around as long as Cher, so this isn’t exactly news. But who needs an education when you have a cash cow?
Twenty-year-old Xavior from South Texas, USA is living his Cinderella fantasy after dropping out of college to become a full-time sugar baby for the 56-year-old man he loves, who he met on Grindr – and yes, the relationship comes with a decent salary.
Xavior told LadBible that he gets $1,500 (£1,100) a month – which he describes as “play money” – from his sugar daddy, who also covers all rent and bills.
He says: “I’m not an expensive baby to keep. He takes care of my rent, my bills, any expense I may have.If he’s around, I’m not paying for anything. It’s nice, he takes care of me and allows me to live a life of leisure.”
The anonymous sugar daddy now lives with Xavior in his flat, which he says makes him feel less like of an escort and more like a house husband. Now, they’re just focusing on their relationship and life together.
In a surprising twist to this love story, the pair are actually yet to stuff each other silly on each other’s candy.
Xavior describes the couples arrangement as “centered more around an emotional connection”, but apparently plans to give him some sugar on his birthday.
“I didn’t want to give it up easily and him leave me”, says Xavior.
“We are very intimate now but still have not had sex. The time will come – it’s not something I’m claiming will never happen. He’s just a respectful man and waiting isn’t that big of a deal to him.
“I do think I’m going to let him hit it for his birthday. I already have it all planned out – after all, what else could I get a man that could buy himself anything?”
Give him that slice of your birthday cake as and when you’re ready.
We assume he’ll be blowing more than just the candles.
