All these years of the gays pandering to Nick Jonas as it’s finally been confirmed that y’all have been thirsting after the wrong brother. 

Back in 2016, Joe did an interview in which he revealed that whips and chains excite him… (just like Rihanna), but it wasn’t until we stumbled across this photo of the pop singer that the fantasy began to come to life. 

Jonas can be seen in a leather waistcoat with a collar around his neck, while holding a birthday cake. What a way to celebrate! (Why do we feel the cake got eaten in two ways that evening).

Jonas’ now-wife Sophie Turner was the one holding the chains. 

While we’re unable to determine exactly when and where the photos were taken, it’s feeling more like our birthday today…

Oh, and one more reason to love Joe Jonas? He can do this…