Queer Eye‘s food guru Antoni is currently promoting his new book: Antoni in the Kitchen, but it turns out part of the press junket involves learning about Antoni in the Bedroom.

In fact, during his participation with BuzzFeed’s Thirst Tweets, we learned nothing whatsoever about cooking. Apart from the fact that it’s dangerous to do naked (a common fantasy of Antoni’s fans is him slaving over the oven while naked). Something else that is dangerous? Being choked without a safe-action. Well, that’s according to Antoni, who apparently is also a mild-BDSM enthusiast; well, if he knows as much about choking as he does about overusing avocados, we can take his word as gospel.

One tweeter called Antoni cooking “actual porn”, which he responsibly highlights is frequently when he’s holding a knife, which “feels very dangerous”, so if you a guy that’ll highlight all the health and safety hazards while you’re telling him your sexiest fantasies, you know who to call.

He then added, “I guess knives are weirdly sexual aren’t they… It’s like being choked: some of us like it but we know it’s dangerous. But if you like choking make sure you have a safe way. Actually, I learned this the hard way, about to have some TMI.”

“Don’t have a safe word — have a safe move because often you can’t speak if you’re being choked.”

Well, tbh, we’d much rather have seen him offering life hacks around a dungeon than the pantry.