As if the ratio of bottoms to tops wasn’t uneven enough, apparently you can’t even rely on a legitimate straight guy to give you a pounding these days.
Last year, we reported how a number of men had become accustomed to the idea of being rimmed. Well, now six men have spoken to Men’s Health about why they’ve taken it one step further, and become heterosexual bottoms. Sort of.
The fetish, known as ‘pegging’, is when a woman uses a strap-on to demonstrate who really has the bigger balls in the relationship. But realistically, we all know that’s where the male G-spot is, and more men are becoming open to new realms of pleasure.
Phillip, a 30-year-old semi-pro pegger, loves the sensations, the guaranteed-orgasms, role reversal and the physical stretch of taking a dildo. Ok. As gay af as this sounds, Phillip assures that it still doesn’t compare to sex with a woman – because the dildo is just a toy, not an organ.
Sounds like someone who would really appreciate… sex with a man.
John, a 35-year-old, professional pegger (approx. 75 times), claims he loves pegging because “[he] can get a full body orgasm and occasionally multiple ones”.
Say what? Sister, come here and tell us more about these multiples. We need to confirm a few things.
John, goes on, “it feels nice to be filled. I know that women often report this, [and] some of my gay mates do to, so I guess that is the right expression,” before adding that “I’m not sure if it has something to do with emotions being allegedly connected to the intestine, but it feels like I’m getting my feelings fucked, in the best possible way.”
Screaming! This is where a therapist steps in and informs him that ‘no matter how much you fill that hole, it won’t fill the hole in your life’. Sorry, but imagine your heterosexual man being more emotionally needy than an actual gay power bottom.
Simon has desired to be pegged for the last decade, and finally convinced his wife of 16 years to strap-up. He too claims the shift in power dynamic is part of the reasoning, along with intense orgasms.
Charles, 43, details: “I enjoy the thought of feeling what it’s like to be a woman. Just like when a woman gets wet, men do too. I would ride a woman that has the right dildo [or] strap-on and it makes me pre-cum a lot. With every thrust, I feel an orgasm brewing”.
Well, we hope it’s just an orgasm that’s brewing.