FAGONY AUNT: “Should I tell my Ex-Lover’s Wife that he’s a Closeted Cheater?”
Feb14

FAGONY AUNT: “Should I tell my Ex-Lover’s Wife that he’s a Closeted Cheater?”

I’m a gay man in my mid-thirties and, for a few months, I was sleeping with a straight married guy, who’s a few years older and has a child with his wife. I really fancied him and it was exciting at first, but then it became stressful having to sneak around and I actually started to feel very bad for his wife. I ended it after going to his place one night after a drinking session when his wife and child were out of town. I saw all...

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7 Savvy & Successful Tips for Gay Dating (& Sex) in the 21st Century
Feb09

7 Savvy & Successful Tips for Gay Dating (& Sex) in the 21st Century

Amy Winehouse famously sang, “Love is a losing game”, and she didn’t even have Grindr. With an interest in casual sex and random encounters at an all-time peak, and a dwindling social scene those words have never been truer. Sure, there’s still a large portion of us craving love in a more traditional sense, but with the influx of apps, even we’re being pressured into partaking just in the hope of a rare...

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Dating: The Millenial Trend of the “Sex Interview” BEFORE the First Date
Feb07

Dating: The Millenial Trend of the “Sex Interview” BEFORE the First Date

If you were worried that putting out on the first date made you too easy, there’s an increasing numbers of singles not even making it to the dinner table before they scoff on a baguette. Well, in the US, at least; though I’d suppose us Brits aren’t far behind, if not even worse – especially if you survey Clapham. According to USA Today, in a study with with 5,00 Singles In America, they found that 34% have had...

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Dating: Gay Men and the Shiny Penny Syndrome
Feb02

Dating: Gay Men and the Shiny Penny Syndrome

I first heard about the shiny penny syndrome when living in West Hollywood. I didn’t really have to ask for a definition because not only is it relatively self-explanatory, but it makes perfect sense when referring to men on the gay scene. Although, apparently it’s so rife in WeHo, the term is more common than the UK – and y’all thought LA was shallow?! Shiny Penny Syndrome occurs when you’re dating a...

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FAGONY AUNT: My Mum wants to Cure my “Obsession” with Sex Change Op
Jan13

FAGONY AUNT: My Mum wants to Cure my “Obsession” with Sex Change Op

Recently I told my family that I wanted to get a sex change and become a girl. I have lived with this very strong feeling for many years but, every time I talk about it, I am faced with opposition. My mother says that I’m only saying it to upset her, or if I go through with it I’m being selfish and only thinking about what I want. A few months ago when I brought up the subject, my mother flew into a rage and demanded that I put on one...

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Why Dustin Lance Black was Wrong to Berate Closeted Actors
Jan07

Why Dustin Lance Black was Wrong to Berate Closeted Actors

Dustin Lance Black – screenwriter of gay feature Milk and Olympic diver Tom Daley’s fiancé – had some very ‘straight’ words for closeted actors in this month’s Attitude. Black stated: “I have no respect for someone who lies about their sexuality.” So, we should assume from this remark that Black has never been in the closet himself. Anybody that has would know what a dark closet it is; but that the...

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How To Make Yourself More Approachable to Men
Dec29

How To Make Yourself More Approachable to Men

As society progresses, it seems that meeting men in bars is becoming more and more rare, and while many of us are too shy to approach a guy, when we don’t get approached often either, it can leave us at a frustrating impasse. I’d often go out with friends, and while they’d get approached a few times in a night, I’d always be the one on the 176 snuggling up to my Burger King on the way home. I wanted a quarter...

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One Night Stand? Girl, I’m Busy! It’s all about the ‘Half-Night Stand’ Don’t you know
Dec24

One Night Stand? Girl, I’m Busy! It’s all about the ‘Half-Night Stand’ Don’t you know

We’ve all been in that situation where we’ve banged a guy and then scurried out before he woke up. We always known it as a ‘Dick & Dash’, like a dine and dash, but you can’t get arrested. And according to the Huffington Post, the Millenials are totally embracing it! Wait, you’ve still been staying the FULL night? We mostly thought it just meant that he wasn’t good looking enough to wake up...

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Straight Guys! Why have a ‘Bro-Job’ when you can have ‘Dude Sex’?
Dec20

Straight Guys! Why have a ‘Bro-Job’ when you can have ‘Dude Sex’?

Last year, Dr. Jane Ward discussed Not Gay: Sex Between Straight White Men, her book and notion that two straight-identifying men can engage in sexual encounters with one another, without surrendering their preferred label. And though, even we must admit we were impressed with the play on words, it seems that ‘dude sex’ doesn’t quite have the same effect. You know what they say, it’s not gay if you claim...

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FAGONY AUNT: Am I Good Enough to be in Three-Way Relationship with Married Couple?
Dec12

FAGONY AUNT: Am I Good Enough to be in Three-Way Relationship with Married Couple?

I’m worried that I’m going to be dumped and that I’m not good enough for these two guys I’m seeing. I’m dating two guys who happen to be civilly partnered to each other. They’ve been together for six years. As a thruple we’ve been together for a year and recently they decided to make our three-way relationship closed – to just the three of us. Which is great. I feel really happy about that. But I’m worried that they’ll get bored of me...

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QUIZ: Can You Guess the Celebrity Dick Pic? [NSFW]
Dec08

QUIZ: Can You Guess the Celebrity Dick Pic? [NSFW]

Here at C&C, we’re fully aware that the internet loves a good old quiz, so we’ve created one for the entire family! Gather the grandparents and slutty aunties and see who knows their celebrity dick the best! It’s perfect for family get-togethers like funerals or Christmas! Don’t forget to share with your friends to see which bitch should have a degree in celebrity...

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Thought of the Day: If it’s a “Mid-life” Crisis, Why is it Happening NOW?
Dec05

Thought of the Day: If it’s a “Mid-life” Crisis, Why is it Happening NOW?

They call it a mid-life crisis, because it’s supposed to happen in the ‘middle’ of your life. So unless all of me and my mates are gonna die at 50, something’s up. Why are perfectly healthy 25-35 year olds having panic attacks, severe anxiety and emotional breakdowns? Perhaps it’s because we all feel such huge amounts of pressure from not one – but every aspect of our lives? We work really hard because we want to be successful...

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Has our Desire for Sex Clouded the Judgement of our own Safety?
Nov24

Has our Desire for Sex Clouded the Judgement of our own Safety?

In light of the Stephen Port serial Grindr rape and murder case, we question whether our judgement is clouded by the urge for quick sex? You’ll constantly hear gay men bitch about the pitfalls of dating – specifically gay dating – in the 21st century. But that won’t change the fact that two minutes later you’ll probably see them scrolling down their feed of guys on Grindr, or Hornet, or Scruff, or Planet...

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Study Reveals 50 Biggest Dating Turn-Offs — Are You Guilty?!
Nov22

Study Reveals 50 Biggest Dating Turn-Offs — Are You Guilty?!

The human mind is so intricate and everyone’s is so different, it’s always interesting to get an insight into what is going through other people’s. Especially when it comes to dating. While it’s true that you can’t please everybody, and what turns one person off may not bother the next – here’s a list of 50 things that put 2,000 participants off the most. Queerty writes: “Fifty three...

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FAGONY AUNT: “I’ve Just Come Out as Bisexual, but my Family are Overbearing”
Nov22

FAGONY AUNT: “I’ve Just Come Out as Bisexual, but my Family are Overbearing”

I’ve just recently come out as bisexual and my family and friends are so supportive of it, but some of the questions they’re asking are really starting to bother me. My family has always been really open about sex, and they’ve always taught my sister and I to embrace diversity and that sexuality and gender is no barrier to achieving anything we want to in life. However, it’s the “open about sex” thing I’m not so great with! I know...

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