Dating: When your Grindr Meet turns into a Therapy Session
May02

Dating: When your Grindr Meet turns into a Therapy Session

When you meet strangers off hook-up apps, the least you expect is to have your balls lightened, but my latest online liaison dumped his emotional load all over my chest instead. I’d been getting white girl wasted all evening on a gay boat party. Well, it was LGBT with a capital L. Total fish market. Anyway, all that fresh air and Tequila had me so licked that my homecoming was accompanied with slutty Grindr exchanges. What else are...

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Dating: Getting to the Bottom of our Sexual Preferences
Apr19

Dating: Getting to the Bottom of our Sexual Preferences

I rolled my eyes as each member in the group divulged their position in bed. In this really what we’d been resorted to in a bar on a Wednesday night? Watching the bottom’s salivate as the tops identified themselves, and the tops eye-up their counterparts like a piece of meat, while the versatile queens greedily checked out everyone like bisexuals. Apparently sexual compatibility was just as important – if not more so –...

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FAGONY AUNT: “My Addiction to Escorts is Getting me into Debt!”
Apr19

FAGONY AUNT: “My Addiction to Escorts is Getting me into Debt!”

I HAD sex with two escorts in three days – and now I’m worried I’m getting hooked on them. I’m a 25-year-old gay guy and have never had a boyfriend. I’m a computer programmer for a big software company. I work with lots of different people but I never seem to have anyone interested in me. Everyone is geeky and they’re wrapped up in their work rather than wanting to go out. My friend told me about an escort agency he used. I signed up...

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Dating: Are our Lowest Denominators of Intimacy Preventing us from Finding Love?
Apr17

Dating: Are our Lowest Denominators of Intimacy Preventing us from Finding Love?

I’d only been stateside for a New York minute when I found myself chatting to a group of friendly strangers in Boxers, a gay sports bar (sort of). There’s footie on the TV, but Christina Aguilera whaling out the speakers. Anyway, those damn Happy Hours got me chewing stranger’s ears off like a piece of bacon fat. And it wasn’t long before the cocktalk ensued. This week’s topic of discussion was how we can...

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EXCLUSIVE: Colby Melvin “Gay Men Need to be less Apologetic about Sex”
Apr13

EXCLUSIVE: Colby Melvin “Gay Men Need to be less Apologetic about Sex”

He’s amassed a social media following of over 2 million, has modelled for a number of underwear brands – despite the odds being against him (at 5’7″), and is now moving further into the world of activism, Colby Melvin sits down with C&C to chat unapologetic sexuality, shame within the gay community and his love life.  C&C: So you’ve just been announced as the ambassador for Adam Male, tell us how that...

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Gays Overheard NYC: Piercings, Pizza & Poop
Apr13

Gays Overheard NYC: Piercings, Pizza & Poop

We moved all the way overseas and thought that your one-liners couldn’t get any more ridiculous, but obviously we were wrong – y’all New Yorkers are ratchet, bitch. This week we overheard comparisons of the female and male anatomy, the benefits of being – and sleeping with – vers men (and it’s not what you think), and how being an introverted extrovert is scientifically...

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FAGONY AUNT: “I keep Having Sex Dreams About my Husband’s Twin Brothers!”
Apr04

FAGONY AUNT: “I keep Having Sex Dreams About my Husband’s Twin Brothers!”

For the past year, I’ve been having sexual dreams about my husband’s brothers. Yes – brothers. They are 25 and twins. In the dream, it’s always the same. I’m sipping on hot coco in a wood cabin. Suddenly, the twins walk through the front door. Before I know it, I’m servicing both of them on my knees and swallowing each. Just as I’m about to get up, the cabin door swings open and my husband walks in. For some strange reason, that’s...

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Gay Man Claims Hypnosis turned him from a Total Top into a Greedy Bottom
Apr04

Gay Man Claims Hypnosis turned him from a Total Top into a Greedy Bottom

We’ve heard some far-fetched shit in our time, but Brent from Denver claims that he went from strictly top to a bottomless bucket after receiving hypnosis. He’s in an open-relationship, and that’s in-part due to the fact that he didn’t like bottoming. Brent starts his story, claiming “Pretty much my whole adult life, I have identified myself as a top – an exclusive top. Sure, I did oral on dudes and let...

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5 Types of Syndromes that Gay Men are Susceptible to
Apr04

5 Types of Syndromes that Gay Men are Susceptible to

As gay men, there’s a number of issues that we’re more susceptible to that our heterosexual counterparts. Being a perceptive person you begin to notice behavioural patterns, in this article we look at some syndromes that are more common and widely recognised in the medical sense, along with a couple which we’ve coined. Body Dysmorphia  Body Dysmorphia occurs when a person believes themselves to be thinner or fatter...

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Why do Gay Men have a Problem with Other More Expressive Gays?
Apr04

Why do Gay Men have a Problem with Other More Expressive Gays?

OK, can we talk? As funny as it is to joke about the ‘masc 4 masc’ culture, it seems that some gay men have a real issue with other gay men that exude effeminate traits. This week, we shared a video of the Sinon Loresca, the muscle queen that sashays around whatever environment he’s in (shopping malls, streets, gyms) in a pair of stilettos, giving Miss Universe-style waves. 🇵🇭The KING OF CATWALK #sinonloresca 🇵🇭The...

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Dating: Speed Dating in NYC Definitely has a Purpose – it just wasn’t Love
Mar29

Dating: Speed Dating in NYC Definitely has a Purpose – it just wasn’t Love

As if New York City wasn’t fast-paced enough, I’d decided to add even more haste to my love life by signing up for speed dating. I know, I’m fully aware that the chance of this being the biggest shit show since Amanda Bynes, was relatively high. But – despite the beliefs about Paris and Venice – I truly believed that this was the city of love – and if I was gonna date a string of losers somewhere, it was not gonna be...

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Dating: Do Guys with Huge Dicks Struggle to find Real Love because they’re Fetishized?
Mar24

Dating: Do Guys with Huge Dicks Struggle to find Real Love because they’re Fetishized?

When it comes to sex, and – more specifically – size, it’s often asked, “does it matter?” and the answer often varies wildly, depending on who you ask (and how thirsty they are). And while it’s often perceived that bigger is better, is the grass just greener on the other side? Don’t get me wrong, I can certainly think of worse ailments than having a 10-inch dick the circumference of a coke...

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FAGONY AUNT: “Should I tell my Ex-Lover’s Wife that he’s a Closeted Cheater?”
Feb14

FAGONY AUNT: “Should I tell my Ex-Lover’s Wife that he’s a Closeted Cheater?”

I’m a gay man in my mid-thirties and, for a few months, I was sleeping with a straight married guy, who’s a few years older and has a child with his wife. I really fancied him and it was exciting at first, but then it became stressful having to sneak around and I actually started to feel very bad for his wife. I ended it after going to his place one night after a drinking session when his wife and child were out of town. I saw all...

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7 Savvy & Successful Tips for Gay Dating (& Sex) in the 21st Century
Feb09

7 Savvy & Successful Tips for Gay Dating (& Sex) in the 21st Century

Amy Winehouse famously sang, “Love is a losing game”, and she didn’t even have Grindr. With an interest in casual sex and random encounters at an all-time peak, and a dwindling social scene those words have never been truer. Sure, there’s still a large portion of us craving love in a more traditional sense, but with the influx of apps, even we’re being pressured into partaking just in the hope of a rare...

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Dating: The Millenial Trend of the “Sex Interview” BEFORE the First Date
Feb07

Dating: The Millenial Trend of the “Sex Interview” BEFORE the First Date

If you were worried that putting out on the first date made you too easy, there’s an increasing numbers of singles not even making it to the dinner table before they scoff on a baguette. Well, in the US, at least; though I’d suppose us Brits aren’t far behind, if not even worse – especially if you survey Clapham. According to USA Today, in a study with with 5,00 Singles In America, they found that 34% have had...

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